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Thomas Prommer
Technology executive and founder, originally born in Germany but spent most of my adult life in New York and Los Angeles. Happiest when working on something meaningful, growing on every possible level, or exploring somewhere new. Looking for my intellectual, spiritual, and athletic match.
About Me
German-American dual citizen, raised internationally. I've spent two decades building tech for some of the world's most recognizable brands — while quietly running my own ventures since age 12 to enable the financial and location independence I enjoy today.
I believe the best relationships happen when you're not looking. I show up fully and honestly, and let connection happen naturally. I don't need to fall asleep next to my partner every night — but when we're together, it's with full presence. A week of mutual spiritual awakening or a spontaneous city trip means more to me than the daily couch routine. (Though that has its place too.)
Outside work, I'm prepping for my next Misogi — the Japanese philosophy of doing something really hard once a year — writing songs on guitar or piano, or spending time with a selective but intentional social circle.
I'm looking for someone who shares the mindset that the world has too much to offer to stay in one place year-round. If Bhutan or Mozambique are on your bucket list, we may be a fit. Most importantly, I'm looking for a lifelong best friend and intellectual sparring partner — someone who challenges me, grows with me, and enriches my life in unexpected ways.
Lifestyle & Interests
Fitness & Athletics
Ironman, marathon runner, HYROX competitor. Training is non-negotiable — it keeps me grounded, sharp, and honest with myself. Always chasing the next Misogi.
Travel & Global Living
Based between LA, Munich, and Saigon to stay close to family, friends, and my teams across the globe. Constantly on the move — new places fuel who I am.
Food & Culture
Street food explorer and adventurous eater. Best meals at unmarked stalls in Vietnam and late-night izakayas in Tokyo. Always open to a new culinary discovery.
Music & Songwriting
Writing songs on guitar and piano. Love jazz clubs, live music, and discovering new artists. Music is the most honest form of expression I know.
Mindfulness & Growth
Spiritual practice, morning meditation, constant evolution. I value the blend of Western drive and Eastern presence. Every year should be better than the last.
Technology & Building
I build things — apps, companies, teams. Technology is how I think. Most energized when solving hard problems or helping others see what's possible.
What I'm Looking For
The qualities that matter most to me in a partner.
Global Mindset
Comfortable with travel and living internationally. Doesn't need to be in one city to feel at home.
Self-Empowered
Has her own thing going on — built on her own terms. Location independent is a plus.
Growth Mindset
Intellectually curious and always evolving. Reads, asks big questions, and isn't afraid to be wrong.
Emotionally Mature
Communicates directly, handles conflict with grace, and doesn't play games. Secure in who she is.
Independent & Connected
Values her own space as much as togetherness. Present enough to be fully there when it counts.
Adventurous Spirit
Open to spontaneous trips, new experiences, and the occasional uncomfortable adventure.
Open to the Logistics
Long-distance isn't a dealbreaker if the connection is right. We'll figure it out together.
Interested in adding me to your matchmaking network or getting to know me?
I'm open to introductions from professional matchmakers who think there could be a genuine connection.
Get in Touch
I'd love to hear from you